the whole two weeks my wife and 2 sons were back in Ohio on vacation. Turns out she finally busted her "perfect" husband of 14 years cheating on her. They have been married for 4 years longer than us.

I've only spoke with my wife a little bit but she told me a brief version as I was preparing for work today and to drop the oldest one off at school. She was cooking my breakfast; yes we are very domesticated..lol but true. She is a stay at home mom even. Still kills me.

So sorry back to the point,,,,yeah she caught him this time red handed as they say. She came home early from a weekend trip a few weeks ago and she [other woman] was in their their bed. surprise! She grabbed his phone before he could get dressed and locked herself into bathroom. Something she had never done before. Various texts to same girl from "I love you" to "it was so good to finally see you with your clothes off again", etc., etc.

He is a PE (Professional Engineer) someplace. And a terrible one at that as he is always getting laid off or fired so they have moved around quite a bit. So she stay in until she leaves. Then he leaves (!) for over an hour to prepare a bunch of what I'm told were just a bunch of cover ups and lies. Big surprise this guy is one of the lamest I've ever met.

Anyway, she always suspected. We both; me and my wife always suspected it. We had both been telling here since day one that he was the ultimate dirtbag/douchebag and to drop him. 5 years ago she moved out to stay with us for 4 weeks but she said nothing and we just let her stay and be happy she really seemed so; so we let it be not lecturing her just letting her and her then two kids enjoy Montana.

This guy has his wife on an allowance and she works too. Decent job/pay too. He denies her and his kids what I would deem basic privileges but prioritizes money on toys just for him. And this blows my mind he actually spends money on laser hair removal for this glorified volleyball weekend warrior stuff. Not only does he look like a serious dork he is a badly over-tanned weakling. Seriously. I wish I had some incriminating pics or even some pics worth while around someone could photochop. Might might cheer her up as I think this is it and she is going to put him through the ringer from what it sounds like. Just when you think you have issues someone always has it worse and the story to tell. But most of his top any I've heard or seen on mere and pure stupidity alone...

So I told my wife I read about this kind of thing all the time on here, opps as I realy don't. What goes on with these things? With all the hard evidence I would think he is sorta fucked, no?